You know what we love? Spanking! Spanking is a fun, kinky BDSM activity that can be incorporated into role play or during any sexual activity. Let’s explore some of the many different ways that you can integrate spanking into your BDSM scenes!

Role Play and Spanking

Spanking can easily be incorporated into most BDSM scenes. This type of corporal punishment fits perfectly into a myriad of different fantasy role-play scenarios.”

Part of the fun here is discussing with your partner the different wild and fantastical experiences they might want to play out and negotiating these scenes.

Some different role play scenarios might look like a college student who is called into the dean’s office to be reprimanded with a spanking for destruction of public property. Or the secretary who shows up late to work and is called into the office for a spanking she won’t forget!

One of our personal favorites, as bibliophiles, is the staunch librarian who leans a patron over the desk for a spanking for turning in their library books late and dog-earing the pages!

These are just a few ideas. Let your imagination go wild and craft out a sexy spanking roleplay session with your partner.

Paddles

There are many ways to receive a spanking. One of the most common is with a paddle. Paddles can be epic works of art and vary widely in material, size, and weight. There are classic wooden paddles, leather paddles, and acrylic paddles.

Thicker, heavier paddles will have more of a thud sensation, while lighter, thinner paddles can deliver a swift sting. Some paddles have words or markings on them, such as hearts or the word “slut”. When the paddle comes crashing down on the bottom, it leaves the marking or word on the submissive’s butt.

Bare-handed Spanking

Although paddles can be a lot of fun to play with, all you really need for a hot and sexy spanking is an eager submissive who is excited to receive a spanking and your bare hands. A bare-handed spanking is our favorite. To be bent over the knees of a dominant and feel a bare hand come crashing down on an eager ass fills the body with waves of euphoric tingles. We love a nice hard spanking accompanied by the grab of a dominant’s hand on a warm and reddened ass. We like to call this the spank and grab sensation.

Aftercare

After an intense spanking session, applying arnica cream to the spanked area helps soothe the skin and prevent bruising. It's not unusual after intense spanking or BDSM scenes for emotions to flood. Ensuring that you have a support system in place for emotional and physical comfort after a scene is always a good idea. Listen to what your body needs and is asking for.

Spanking Porn and BDSM Spanking Videos

Want to get in the mood for some hot spanking action? Check out some of the BDSM spanking porn videos on KINK for a little inspiration. Or check out an erotic spanking BDSM guide at our Kink Store for more insight on ways to incorporate spanking in the bedroom.